Indian Sawaal-My India, My Views

Three news did shock the nation in recent time. First was news of mumbai business man who raped his own daughter for 9 long years on advice of taantrik for better materialistic gains!!!

Then came another news from punjab where similar type of news was reported this time involving a bjp politician who used to rape his own daughter.

Then three days back an american student studying in tata institute of social science was gang raped by 6 students.

Rape is perhaps the worst crime possible. It is perhaps as serious as murder because its murder of self respect of a lady and the kind of trauma , humilation she goes through is unimaginable.

Why do man rape?

I always wonder why do man rape?.I mean how can some one be so animal like?…This is what research psychologist of psychology today has to tell about type of rapists :

* Type 1 is influenced by deviant sexual arousal, which occurs when he has thoughts of violence against women. This type is likely to be extremely impulsive.
* Type 2 is motivated by cognitive distortions, or thinking errors; he mistakenly interprets events or information differently than other men would. He believes that some women enjoy being raped, or want to be raped. For this type, rape is part of a conquest, a way of demonstrating masculinity. Most date rapists are Type 2s.
* Type 3, is motivated by anger or emotional discontrol. These men are so angry, especially at women, that the only way for them to deal with their anger is to act out sexually toward women. Not surprisingly, this type is the most violent and most dangerous.
* Type 4 is the repeat offender. He is most likely to have been physically or sexually abused as a child. He has difficulty establishing enduring relationships, and a history of chronic problems in schools or in his family. Type 4 men break a variety of rules, both sexual and nonsexual.

Now which category does the dads of those two girls fall into?. The mumbai gang rapists probably fall into type 2.

What ever the category , they all actually do fall into inhumans. They spoil lives and it takes years and years for victim to come out of it.

It is worst crime possible . In murder person looses its life , in rape person looses faith on opposite gender , feels helpless , feels fear , has difficulty in having normal life , looses self esteem and looses lot of other things.

Laws against rape must be made tougher to ensure that atleast victims gets some consolation.